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About Charlie

I'm a writer, blogger, teacher, workshop facilitator, sex & relationship coach, and a certified somatic sex educator. I teach workshops and seminars on many different sexuality topics, including sex-positivity, sex & shame, communities of erotic affiliation, many different sexual practices, gender & masculinity, and sexual politics. Contact me for more information, to arrange a speaking engagement, or to find out how I can help you create an amazing sex life.

When Anal Sex Doesn’t Work

Here’s a question that showed up in my in-box today: Sometimes, when my boyfriend and I have anal sex, it’s really fun. But other times, it just doesn’t work. That doesn’t happen when we have regular intercourse. What are we doing wrong? It’s sort of hard to give you a specific answer since there are lots of things that make anal sex awesome and you need to do them every time. But there are two thing in particular that I …

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Four Things You Need To Know To Have Awesome Anal Sex

It probably won’t surprise you to hear that I love anal sex. After all, I’m one of the authors of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure, and I teach lots of workshops about anal play, prostate massage, and related topics. Of course, that’s not all I do, but given how many people fantasize about anal sex, it’s no wonder that I get a lot of emails and questions about how to do it and make it fun. The tricky thing …

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Get the “Bottoms Up” Anal Pleasure Kit from Lucky Bloke

When you’re on the go or on the road, it’s important to have your gear ready. There’s nothing worse than not being able to enjoy a prostate massage simply because you’re out of gloves or lube. And when you want an evening pegging and anal intercourse, you want the best condoms around. I’ve teamed up with Lucky Bloke to create the “Bottoms Up” Anal Pleasure Kit to make sure you have everything you need to make your backdoor adventures great! …

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The Pulse Oscillating Vibrator Will Rock Your World

I get a lot of questions about prostate massage and pegging, and one of the most common is, “what about pleasuring the penis while we’re doing this?” During a prostate massage, some people like to use their other hand for that, though it can be tricky to coordinate everything. And when you’re pegging, you sometimes need both hands to hold yourself up. A lot of people simply have the receiver stroke his cock, and that’s a really fun way to …

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Orgasm From Prostate Stimulation Alone?

The Multi-Orgasmic Man

Here’s a question I got from a reader: Is it possible to ejaculate from prostate stimulation alone? If so, is it a matter of time..using vibration..or applying more pressure perhaps? I have seen videos online of men having a hands free orgasms or ejaculating a slow stream of cum as they stimulate themselves. I have had unbelievable sensations where I felt like I was about to orgasm any moment but that’s as far as it would go. Any feedback would …

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Pegging Tips: The Mustang Silicone Dildo

Mustang VixSkin Realistic Dildo

If you’re looking for a great dildo for pegging, you should take a look at the Mustang Silicone Dildo by Vixen. It’s an ideal toy for beginners or experienced peggers. The Mustang is made from VixSkin, which is Vixen’s amazingly realistic silicone formula. The inner core is firm, which gives you the stability you need, while the outer layer has a softer texture. As a result, the toy has a much more life-like feel, especially once it warms to body …

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Take Your Prostate Massage To The Next Level With The Aneros Helix Syn

I’ve been a big fan of the Aneros prostate massagers ever since their first products came out. Their unique designs are based on extensive research, and they really know their stuff. But the company isn’t content to rest on their past successes. They keep coming out with new toys. On the surface, the Helix Syn is similar to the other Aneros prostate massagers. Designed for hands-free use, the toy levers into the prostate with each contraction of the pelvic floor. …

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Check Out These Amazing Reviews!

Its always a pleasure to hear from folks about our book and how much they’ve enjoyed reading it. Here are some of the highlights from our Amazon page. “I’m not exactly a novice when it comes to sex, and I have to admit that when I began flipping through this manual, I expected to see things that I already knew. I was pleasantly surprised to find a whole wealth of information, including helpful (and tasteful) illustrations. I LOVE that it …

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Troubleshooting Your Pegging Gear

Here’s a question that came in via Facebook: We need a good harness and dildo. I know there’s issues with dildo materials being toxic, which is why I am hesitant to shop online. If you have recommendations I’d be thrilled. The other issue I’ve had in the past has been dildo angle. Most harnesses cause a dildo to angle downward. I find this make anal insertion very problematic. A few dildos have an upward bend and this helps, but the …

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It’s Not About The Size

One of the most frequent questions I hear about prostate play (once we get past the common concerns) is whether something as slim as a finger or the Aneros MGX is going to do anything. After all, we’re so used to thinking that bigger is better, so how can a slender toy or a finger be effective? First off, can we please set aside the whole “more is better” attitude? Each person has their own preferences for length and width, …

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