When Anal Sex Doesn’t Work

Here’s a question that showed up in my in-box today: Sometimes, when my boyfriend and I have anal sex, it’s really fun. But other times, it just doesn’t work. That doesn’t happen when we have regular intercourse. What are we doing wrong? It’s sort of hard to give you a specific answer since there are …

Four Things You Need To Know To Have Awesome Anal Sex

It probably won’t surprise you to hear that I love anal sex. After all, I’m one of the authors of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure, and I teach lots of workshops about anal play, prostate massage, and related topics. Of course, that’s not all I do, but given how many people fantasize about anal …

Get the “Bottoms Up” Anal Pleasure Kit from Lucky Bloke

When you’re on the go or on the road, it’s important to have your gear ready. There’s nothing worse than not being able to enjoy a prostate massage simply because you’re out of gloves or lube. And when you want an evening pegging and anal intercourse, you want the best condoms around. I’ve teamed up …

The Pulse Oscillating Vibrator Will Rock Your World

I get a lot of questions about prostate massage and pegging, and one of the most common is, “what about pleasuring the penis while we’re doing this?” During a prostate massage, some people like to use their other hand for that, though it can be tricky to coordinate everything. And when you’re pegging, you sometimes …

Orgasm From Prostate Stimulation Alone?

Here’s a question I got from a reader: Is it possible to ejaculate from prostate stimulation alone? If so, is it a matter of time..using vibration..or applying more pressure perhaps? I have seen videos online of men having a hands free orgasms or ejaculating a slow stream of cum as they stimulate themselves. I have …

Pegging Tips: The Mustang Silicone Dildo

If you’re looking for a great dildo for pegging, you should take a look at the Mustang Silicone Dildo by Vixen. It’s an ideal toy for beginners or experienced peggers. The Mustang is made from VixSkin, which is Vixen’s amazingly realistic silicone formula. The inner core is firm, which gives you the stability you need, …

Take Your Prostate Massage To The Next Level With The Aneros Helix Syn

I’ve been a big fan of the Aneros prostate massagers ever since their first products came out. Their unique designs are based on extensive research, and they really know their stuff. But the company isn’t content to rest on their past successes. They keep coming out with new toys. On the surface, the Helix Syn …

Check Out These Amazing Reviews!

Its always a pleasure to hear from folks about our book and how much they’ve enjoyed reading it. Here are some of the highlights from our Amazon page. “I’m not exactly a novice when it comes to sex, and I have to admit that when I began flipping through this manual, I expected to see …

Troubleshooting Your Pegging Gear

Here’s a question that came in via Facebook: We need a good harness and dildo. I know there’s issues with dildo materials being toxic, which is why I am hesitant to shop online. If you have recommendations I’d be thrilled. The other issue I’ve had in the past has been dildo angle. Most harnesses cause …

It’s Not About The Size

One of the most frequent questions I hear about prostate play (once we get past the common concerns) is whether something as slim as a finger or the Aneros MGX is going to do anything. After all, we’re so used to thinking that bigger is better, so how can a slender toy or a finger …