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Its always a pleasure to hear from folks about our book and how much they've enjoyed reading it. Here are some of the highlights from our Amazon page. "I'm not exactly a novice when it comes to sex, and I have to admit that when I began flipping through this manual, I expected to see things that...

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It’s Not About The Size

One of the most frequent questions I hear about prostate play (once we get past the common concerns) is whether something as slim as a finger or the Aneros MGX is going to do anything. After all, we’re so used to thinking that bigger is better, so how can a slender toy or a finger be effective? First off, can we please set aside the whole “more is better” attitude? Each person has their own preferences for length and width, …

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There is no stigma around prostate massage

The stigma comes up around anal penetration for men. When talking about our book, folks sometimes say things like “Prostate play is something which has long since been taboo.” This is true in so far as prostate massage involves anal penetration. But in my opinion, it’s not prostate stimulation, per se, that is taboo. I would say that the prostate is first and foremost unrecognized as an erogenous area (though that has been changing lately as this practice grows in …

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Blog Tour & Giveaway for The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure

Things have been really exciting around here lately. Aislinn and I have been on the road to get the word out about The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure and we’ve had a great time. So far, we’ve been to Boston, Seattle (twice), Portland, LA, San Diego, Albuquerque, Santa Cruz, and a bunch of places throughout the San Francisco Bay Area. Our tour is going to cover most of the US and parts of Canada and we’d love to see you …

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The Aneros Vice Vibrating Silicone Anal Toy Will Rock Your World

Aneros Vice Vibrating Silicone Anal Toy

When you’re ready to experience the ultimate in hands-free prostate pleasure, you don’t need to look any further than the Aneros Vice. This amazing gadget has it all. As with all of their other products, the folks with Aneros took their time to create something special. Made from body-safe silicone, the Vice is designed to rest comfortably against the prostate. With an insertable length of 4″, it’s long enough to hit the spot without being too big. But what makes …

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Prostate Massage Without Penetration: The Sweet Spot

I often get asked whether anal penetration is the only way to do prostate massage. You might be surprised to hear that the answer is no. You can do lots of fun prostate play by massaging the perineum, which is the area between the balls and the anus. The prostate is a few inches above the perineum, so the sensations from a firm massage get transmitted through the muscles and other tissues in between, into the prostate. It’s not as …

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The Jopen Ego e4: A Fun New Prostate Massager

Jopen Ego e4

I can tell that attitudes about prostate play are changing with all of the new massagers and toys available these days. The folks at Jopen recently sent me their latest p-spot pleasure toy, the Ego e4. Like the rest of the Ego line, the e4 is a rechargeable vibrator and it plugs into any USB port. It’s covered in silicone, so it’s easy to clean, though there is a small opening in the base for the charging plug. Given how …

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Add A Little Extra To Pegging With These Great Toys

I get a lot of questions from women who want to try pegging or who have given it a shot, and want to get a little more pleasure out of the experience. Of course, lots of women get off on the experience of pegging, even if they don’t get much direct physical stimulation from it. But there are also some great toys that will give you some extra action. Some harnesses let you place the base of your dildo low …

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Three Ways To Give An Amazing Prostate Massage

Prostate massage can be one of the most incredible sexual experiences. Fingers are incredibly sensitive and versatile, so you can give your partner all sorts of different pleasures. Here are some tips to supercharge your techniques. First, more isn’t always better. It’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking that if a little is good, more will rock your guy’s world, but that’s not how it works. Think of it like music. You want it loud enough to hear, …

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Does Anal Sex Cause Hemorrhoids?

Here’s a question I got on Facebook: Do you have a grasp of the research on the link between anal sex as a cause for hemorrhoids? Any chance you’ve encountered something like a metastudy? Some sex educators and columnists claim there’s no link. And I see some medical sites do claim a link, but these same sites also use weirdly moralizing tones about anal sex (i.e. it’s not natural, not designed for sex, etc). While there’s not much good research …

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USB Butt Plug Revolutionizes Sex Toy Technology

Sex toy technology has been advancing in leaps and bounds in recent years, from fucking machines to remote control toys to vibes that buzz to the beat of the music that you are playing. But I was amazed when I discovered the newest development in sex toys tech: the USB Butt Plug. When inserted, this remarkable toy harnesses the bioelectric energy of the root chakra, thereby charging your USB compatible devices while you wear it. Simply apply the same kind …

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