Think Harnesses Are Just For Women? Check Out The Deuce Harness For Men!

A Harness for Men? Most folks assume that the only people wearing strap-on dildos are women and transgender men. And while it’s true that those are probably the most likely harness users, cisgender men can also wear harnesses. But until SpareParts HardWear came out with the Deuce, there weren’t many options. Yes, some guys managed …

Three Great Lubricants for Prostate Massage & Prostate Milking

Prostate massage and prostate milking are two of the most popular ways to bring your partner some amazing pleasure. Your fingers are incredibly sensitive to every small change in your lover’s response and there are a lot of different techniques you can use to tease and arouse. Plus, you can combine your favorite finger moves …

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We’re really excited to get the word out about prostate play and we couldn’t do it without our fantastic sponsors. They’re as dedicated as we are to helping you have the best sex possible and they make some of the best toys and other products for prostate pleasure and pegging. Working with them is truly …

Looking For A Realistic Dildo? Check out VixSkin

Plenty of folks like realistic dildos for their prostate play, and there are lots of options out there. Maybe it’s the extra bit of life-like appearance that makes the fantasy work. Maybe it’s the shape of the head as it slides across the prostate. But when it comes to finding a dildo that looks and …

Pegging for Femmes: The Sasha Couture Harness

There are lots of ways to enjoy pegging and lots of different harnesses on the market. For some women, wearing a strap-on can be a fun way to explore gender and role play. But other folks want a harness that has a more femme appearance. If that’s you, you’ll want to check out the Sasha …

Get Into Position With The Liberator Wedge & Ramp

One of the most important things you can do to make anal penetration easy and pleasurable is to be able to relax into it. The muscles of your pelvic floor  almost never switch off. In fact, other than your heart, they’re some of the hardest working muscles in your body. The only time they relax …

Charm: The Perfect Pegging Dildo

I think it’s really great that more male/female couples are exploring pegging. Strap-on harnesses & dildos are a really sexy way to explore prostate play and they leave the giver’s hands free for all sorts of other fun. The tricky thing is that a lot of dildos that are slim enough to work well for …

Getting Started With Anal Play? Try the Bootie Plug

If you’re just starting out with prostate play, you might feel a little nervous about anal penetration. It takes a little know-how to make it feel good, as well plenty of practice. But even guys who have been doing it for a while can sometimes need to take it slow at the beginning of a …

Want To Try Prostate Play? Start With The Aneros MGX

Whether you’re starting out with prostate play or you’ve been at it for a while and want to try something new, the Aneros MGX Prostate Massager is one of the best toys around. In fact, it was one of the first toys specifically designed for prostate play and it quickly became a lot of guy’s …